Apr
09
Posted (Laura) in Children, Daily Life, Finances, Parenting, Son on April-9-2008

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I’m having a little trouble in controlling my son’s cell phone money. When he has money to spend he sends messages to his friends especially to his girlfriend. Even being both at school, (of course they don’t date, they’re 9 and 10 years old) and they even barely talk so they send SMS messages. Can you believe this? Of course this is a curious situation once they are so young but it’s getting annoying to me.

Another unpleasant situation is that he calls me 2, 3 or 4 times a day while I’m working. I usually cancel the call and call him from the office phone but sometimes I’m so busy and the bosses are next to me that I’m caught in a difficult situation. I already explained this to my son, he understands but he just wants to say Hi or make a silly question.

My big problem right now is the real use of the cell phone: emergency situations or really important ones, once he gets out of balance too quickly he’s not able to call me if something happens. We’ve had several conversations about this, he says he understands but he keeps sending SMS and calls his friends. He was grounded 4 days without cell phone but he keeps using the cell phone and spending money.

I’ve read some articles regarding teaching our children how to use money but although I know he’ll get there it’s complicated. I’ve been having a hard time with this situation.

Here are some articles I found and read about this subject:
http://life.familyeducation.com/money-and-kids/personal-finance/34481.html
http://life.familyeducation.com/money-and-kids/parenting/36332.html
http://biz.yahoo.com/pfg/e37children/
http://www.essortment.com/all/kidsmoney_revb.htm

If someone has written posts about this subject please leave the link, your personal opinion is welcome.

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Comments:
CyberCelt on April 13th, 2008 at 3:59 #

If I knew how to teach children about $$, I would write a book. My son, who is now 18, is a spendthrift. We had a family plan for cell phone. He went over, used over 1000 minutes each month. I was paying $300 phone bills. Then he started texting at .10 each.

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jtfmulder on April 14th, 2008 at 7:30 #

I’m not a parent, but I can totally relate to your situation because I was just like your son when I was his age.
I’m curious, does he get an allowance? Have you considered getting a cell phone plan with unlimited text messaging? Do you feel that you are giving in to his obsession of frivolously using the cell phone if you do?
I am a bit surprised that you let a 10 year old have a cell phone, but that’s a whole different topic of discussion. I know that my 10 year old niece and nephew don’t have their own cell phones and that their parents could easily afford to get them for them.

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Laura on April 15th, 2008 at 3:29 #

I guess spending two weeks without any money in the cell phone, at least will make him more aware that spend everything equal to: no phone money. He has 28cents now, meaning if he makes a phone call he won’t be able to make any more calls or send messages. Let’s see how it works.

Laura on April 15th, 2008 at 3:56 #

He’s 9 and doesn’t get an allowance, he gets want he needs.
This all started with this: http://mydailylifeasamom.com/2008/02/should-a-9-years-old-have-a-cell-phone/
To have a plan with unlimited text messages we have to pay a certain amount monthly and that’s too expensive. At home he used free messages through the computer, he just has to be careful with his “not necessary” phone calls during the day. I hope he gets that soon.

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